There is so much to consider in the business of divorce. Emotions are often high – whether it is sadness, anger or debilitating grief, handling those emotions while dealing with the business of divorce is necessary. You need to make the best possible choices for you and your family when you sometimes can’t even see what those may be. Make sure you identify what you want for your future and make a plan to live the life you want to live. Sometimes we cant even envision what that life could be because of the pain, anger and resentment — but we must look forward because this time shall pass. Avoid the big mistakes and get help, advice and support when it matters. Avoid listening to the stories from friends and family and figure out what works for you and your family. Everyone has ideas and advice on how to navigate divorce — whether they have gone through it themselves or not. You have to learn to filter that and keep your goals at the forefront.